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“Tom worked on my campaign for Congress in 1992. He was an enthusiastic supporter and a good friend. My condolences to all of his family. ”
1 of 39 | Posted by: Chuck Forrest - Rome, Italy

“Our hearts are broken for all the family.our Godson was so much a part of our lives as well as the whole family. Love and prayers to all.q ”
2 of 39 | Posted by: Lynn and Pat Quigley - MI

“With deepest sympathy. What great Green Lake memories. ”
3 of 39 | Posted by: Kate, Sarah, Sue and Archie Bailey

“Although I didn't spend a lot of time with Tom, the period I did was special. We coached a little Caesars baseball team together back when our boys...Read More »
4 of 39 | Posted by: Dino Martinbianco - MI - Friend

“Dear Gordon,I'm so sorry to learn of your son's passing. It's not supposed to work this way. Losing a kid, at whatever age, is the ultimate sadness....Read More »
5 of 39 | Posted by: Ken Whipple - Bloomfield Hills, MI

“To Everyone In The Family,Please accept my sincere condolences at this sad news. I have not seen Thomas for many years but I know how proud Gordon...Read More »
6 of 39 | Posted by: Bob Miske - Detroit, MI

“We will surely miss Tom. We had a lot of fun getting to know him and his family over past 10 years through little league baseball and becoming...Read More »
7 of 39 | Posted by: Kevin McCarron - MI - Friend

“There are two days in every week about which we should not worry. Two days which should be kept free of fear and apprehension. One of these days is...Read More »
8 of 39 | Posted by: Art McWood - Grosse Pointe, MI

“I am forever grateful for the time I got to spend with Tom coaching an extraordinary group of boys in baseball, one of which included Christopher. I...Read More »
9 of 39 | Posted by: Harry Crane - Grosse Pointe, MI

“We would like to extend our sincere heartfelt sympathy to Emily and her family and The Butcher family . Our love and prayers will be with all of you ...Read More »
10 of 39 | Posted by: Tom and Grace Wood and family - MI

“Emily, David and Christopher,I am so sorry for your loss. Tom was a great man, a true friend and a proud father and husband. I was lucky to get to...Read More »
11 of 39 | Posted by: Dieter Wiedmayer

“I knew Tom at Albion and share many fond memories of him with our fellow classmates. He and Chris lived down the hall from me freshman year. He...Read More »
12 of 39 | Posted by: Kendra Komp - Ferndale, MI

“For nine years I worked closely with Tom. Due in no small part to his charisma and wonderful sense of humor, they contained many of my fondest...Read More »
13 of 39 | Posted by: Dean Houser - Los Angeles, CA

“Emily, saying I am sorry does not help but truly I understand the distraughtness. Practice self-care and nurture sons. No words can express. Geri...Read More »
14 of 39 | Posted by: Geri Touscany - MI - Friend

“I am so sorry to hear about Tom's passing, my thoughts and prayers go out to the Scupholm & Butcher Families. I have many memories of Tom sitting in...Read More »
15 of 39 | Posted by: LIN LAPENSEE - Windsor - Coworker

“Tom was a wonderful man, with a wonderful family. He will live on in our hearts a wonderful man, and we are fortunate to still be blessed with Emily,...Read More »
16 of 39 | Posted by: Brian Butcher Toronto, ON, Canada

“Carrie & Matt,Sending you all our love and support - in all ways. We are broken hearted for you!Robin, Doug, Maddie and Sydney ”
17 of 39 | Posted by: Robin Tracey - Pleasant Ridge, MI

“I am shocked to hear of Tom passing. I have a lot of fond memories and laughter in working with him for many many years. My condolence goes out to...Read More »
18 of 39 | Posted by: Shelley Renaud - Windsor

“Sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to Emily and all of Tom's family. I know how important all of you were to Tom. ”
19 of 39 | Posted by: Denis Blondin - Windsor, Ontario

“( brother of Matthew Arcari )Both Rossana & I send our prayers & condolences to the entire Familyand wish you strength & peace during this difficult...Read More »
20 of 39 | Posted by: Rick Arcari - CA - Family

“Gordon, Marilyn and CarrieEmily, David and ChristopherOur hearts broke when hearing of Tom's passing. We share your grief and pray forGod's comfort...Read More »
21 of 39 | Posted by: Sara and Dick Shirley - MI

“Although I did not see Tom very often, I always enjoyed spending time with him. Tom was an amazing cousin-in-law, always quick with a joke and a...Read More »
22 of 39 | Posted by: Stephanie (Butcher) Baskerville

“Dearest Emily and family, My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this most difficult time. May God comfort you and give you strength and...Read More »
23 of 39 | Posted by: Lili Hong - Lasalle - Friend

“So sorry for your loss! I pray God comfort you and your family during this very difficult time. ”
24 of 39 | Posted by: Jesse Jamerson - Taylor, MI

“Emily I am so deeply sorry for your loss our prayers are for you and your boys we hope that you find peace in the love that surrounds you. ”
25 of 39 | Posted by: Michelle Applegate - MI - Friend

“Emily and family, So very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts. Sincerely, Cynthia Tan ”
26 of 39 | Posted by: Cynthia Tan - Classmate

“dear marilyn gordon and carrieour hearts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time no words can express our sincere sadness. we will...Read More »
27 of 39 | Posted by: howard nordlund - henderson, NV

“Emily, I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that we will be keeping you and the boys in our prayers in these coming weeks. I wish we could be...Read More »
28 of 39 | Posted by: Harriett Whitaker - Chattanooga, TN

“We are shocked and saddend to learn of Tommy's passing. We grieve with all of you and send our love and prayers to Gordon, Marylyn, and Carrie ”
29 of 39 | Posted by: Bob and Gayla Emde - MI

“Tom has been a permanent fixture on the baseball field for the last decade. I am honored to have coached side by side with him for two years. He...Read More »
30 of 39 | Posted by: Patrick Hopper - MI - Friend

“To the Scupholm family,We are deeply saddened to hear about Tom. We are so sorry for your loss. At this difficult time, know that your friends...Read More »
31 of 39 | Posted by: Mark & Johnna Schroeder - TX

“Dear Emily, David, Christopher, Marilyn. Gordon and Carrie and all of the extended family...Butchers, Deluca's etc...Our hearts are broken for the...Read More »
32 of 39 | Posted by: Kristen VanPelt - MI - Friend

“Sending prayers of strength and support during this difficult time. We all have nothing but great memories of Tom. May you all find peace. ...Read More »
33 of 39 | Posted by: Jennifer Northouse (Lewicki) - WI

“Deepest sympathy. You and your family are in my prayers. ”
34 of 39 | Posted by: Janice Brode - Windsor ON

“All our strength and support to you and the boys Emily. We are so sorry for your loss. ”
35 of 39 | Posted by: Robin and kim Kendrick - MI

“Dear Emily and family,We are so saddened and shocked to hear of Tom's sudden passing. Our hearts go out to you, and you are all in our thoughts and...Read More »
36 of 39 | Posted by: Jean and Brian Leonard

“With deep sympathy to the Scupholm family. May God bless you all at this time. Regards, Dot Arcari ”
37 of 39 | Posted by: Dorothy Arcari - Traverse city, MI

“Tom was a caring, considerate and fun loving guy who poured into kids and others. His support of Eagle Sports through donations of baseball equipment...Read More »
38 of 39 | Posted by: Murray Sales - Grosse pointe, MI

“I only recently had the pleasure of meeting Tom. But the world will miss an incredibly nice man. My prayers are with his family. ”
39 of 39 | Posted by: One man and a wrench Jim - MI

Scupholm III, Thomas Gordon Age 47 Sept. 16, 2017. Beloved husband of Emily(nee Butcher) for 22 years. Loving father of David and Christopher. Dearest son of Gordon and Marilyn Scupholm. Dear brother of Carrie(Matthew Arcari)Scupholm and son-in-law of David and Nancy Butcher. The family will be receiving friends Friday Sept. 22nd at 3pm for a Memorial Gathering at The Country Club of Detroit 220 Country Club Dr, Grosse Pointe Farms until the Memorial Service at 5pm. Donations may be made to the Evans Scholarship Foundation of Golf, Illinois, at One Briar Road, Golf, Illinois, 60029-0301 or at Share memories with the family at their "On-Line Guestbook" at