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“Hard to begin to describe what I am feeling right now. My Aunt Carole used to babysit us and when she first started dating Uncle Jerry, if he wanted...Read More »
1 of 27 | Posted by: Linda Wilson - Sterling Heights, MI

“Dear Carol and Family, I just heard of Jerry's passing and I am verry saddened by your loss. I have such vivid memories of working with Jerry at...Read More »
2 of 27 | Posted by: Jeff Axt - Bloomfield Hills, MI

“Christmas was lonely knowing you were not around to call and say "I just called to say I love you" We all miss your special part you played in our...Read More »
3 of 27 | Posted by: Loretta Cavender - MI

“So sorry to hear about Jerry....there are no better friends than Jerry and Carole. Most of our kids memories are of the Cavenders...boating, partying...Read More »
4 of 27 | Posted by: Danny and Claudia Rashid - NC

“Jerry was the life of a party, always welcomed us in his home. Good memories! Our prayers are still with the family and will continue to be so in...Read More »
5 of 27 | Posted by: Carol Lukity - Warren, MI

“I am so blessed to have met and become friends with Jerry he was one of a kind. The best kind ! You will be missed. RIP my friend. ”
6 of 27 | Posted by: Georgianne Cooper - Cape Coral, FL

“Jerry was always one of those guys who was bigger than life. You never saw him without a big grin on his face. And his biggest joy seemed to be to...Read More »
7 of 27 | Posted by: Anita Rodgers - Sunland, CA

“Don and I wanted to let the Cavender Family know that we will treasure all of the fun and memories that we have had with Jerry through the years....Read More »
8 of 27 | Posted by: Don and Norma Bown - Palm Harbor, FL

“Our memories of Jerry will never be forgotten. He was a unique person with a Great personality. Jerry was someone you always wanted to be around all...Read More »
9 of 27 | Posted by: Tom Kubaney and Lois Beck - FL

“Loved going over to JERRIES and going over our team. Will certinally miss that and most of all I will miss Jerry. ”
10 of 27 | Posted by: Bill & Arlene Smith - FL

“Jerry, you will be missed at all the baseball games, and gatherings for the ball teams at Buccaneer, ”
11 of 27 | Posted by: Pat Kersanty - N. Fort Myers, FL

“" My mom and dad, (Don and Norma Bown) have known Jerry since they were kids. Through the years, as well as my sisters,(Wendy and Amy) I came along...Read More »
12 of 27 | Posted by: Warren Everett Bown - Palm Harbor, FL

“Buccaneer ,the Baseball Team,and the original cheerleaders will NEVER be the same. YOU will be missed!!! ”
13 of 27 | Posted by: Helene Morse - N Fort Myers, FL

“Unable to be in Detroit due to medical issues, my wife and I extend our deepest sympathies to the Cavander Family. These past 16 years were some of...Read More »
14 of 27 | Posted by: James Porzio - Orland Park, IN

“Uncle Jerry,I will always remember you and cherish the memories I have of you! You always knew how to make the room grow with laughter and put smiles...Read More »
15 of 27 | Posted by: Tiffany DeMarco - Clarkston, MI

One of Jerry's favorite toys. Only he could patrol Buccaneer and party at the same time. Memories! “How do we put in words what we feel right now? Impossible,for their are so many memories.Never to be forgotten. We will all party together one day...Read More »
16 of 27 | Posted by: Marie Burrell - Troy, MI

“A beautiful smile and a friendly wave and countless conversations about life.. We will truly miss him. Our deepest sympathy to all of you. Rich,...Read More »
17 of 27 | Posted by: Jeanne Peddy - warren, MI

“The purpose of life's journey is not to arrive at the grave with a well-preserved body, but rather to Slide in Sideways, completely used up, yelling...Read More »
18 of 27 | Posted by: Keith Roberts - Nephew

“A wonderful man who has always been in my life and who created many memories; "You can do it, You can do it, You can do it!", "How many? 750 750 750"...Read More »
19 of 27 | Posted by: Ron Bown - Chesterfield, MI

“When thinking of Jerry I think of him in the same memory as Harold, and our Gang., Boats, Ski Jets, Karaoke, And song "oh my love" ”
20 of 27 | Posted by: Yvette Holloker - Cocoa, FL

“Jerry was always one of my favorite people in the family to hang out with. Always the gracious host, going back to my college days and hanging out at...Read More »
21 of 27 | Posted by: Tom Bedont - Bethlehem, GA

“So many great memories...the karaoke, fun times in St.Pete Beach, etc. Jerry, you were one of a kind. Always making us laugh & smile. Our thoughts &...Read More »
22 of 27 | Posted by: Linda Lesnau - MI

“Jerry, A wonderful man who has always been in my life and who created many memories; You can do it, You can do it, You can do it! How many? 750 750...Read More »
23 of 27 | Posted by: Ron Bown - Chesterfield, MI

“Fish Day 1998 - when Michigan "invaded" Port Washington, WI. The BEST of times. Who else but Jerry could get a bus driver to stop for him to pick...Read More »
24 of 27 | Posted by: Pat and Connie Flanagan - WI

“Jerry was a wonderful person, and so much fun. He will be missed. We were looking forword spending time with him this winter. Love and memories Ron...Read More »
25 of 27 | Posted by: Ron Kathy rogers - Dryden, MI

26 of 27 | Posted by: DAVID & DIANNE BUDNICK - BRIGHTON, MI

“2 years is all I got to get to know Jerry, but in those two years there have been countless laughs and smiles! Between the good times and how much...Read More »
27 of 27 | Posted by: Angela Levitan - Chesterfield, MI

CAVENDER, JERRY A. Age 74. October 22, 2012. Beloved husband of Carole. Loving father of John(Michelle) & Steven(Marie). Proud grandfather of Ryan, Lance, Blake, Taylor & Kaitlyn. Dearest brother of Clyde(Laurie) & Reg(Debbie). Jerry was a member of AMVETS Post 81, the Warren Elks Lodge 2292, the St. Clair Shores Moose Lodge 1837 and spent the winter months at Buccaneer Estates, in North Ft. Meyers, FL. Visitation Wednesday 3-9pm. Funeral Thursday 11:00am at Wujek-Calcaterra & Sons Inc. 36900 Schoenherr at Metro Parkway (16 Mile). Interment at Resurrection Cemetery. Share memories with the family at their "On Line Guest Book" @